Archivable Quotes: Love Your Clit

These are my thoughts on this amazing little find.

http://www.13.waisays.com/clitoral.htm

Clitoral orgasms do not serve conception, and are not obtained through sexual intercourse. Clitoral orgasms serve physical health, and pleasure, and are obtained through specific clitoric stimulus. Orgasms enhanced by intense sexual fantasies and a capable and compatible partner, increase oxytocin release the most.

Say no more. I so agree! I’m a huge advocate of self pleasure if you don’t have a partner. Regardless of self pleasure or pleasure induced by another….. having orgasm everyday is great for health.

“Oxytocin deficiency enhances stress, obesity and psychotic behavior, impairs cognitive functions and increases breast-cancer risk.”

Oxytocin is a hormone every person should know well and work to consistently flood the body with it. There are many other ways to increase oxytocin besides a clit orgasm. Hugging, cuddling, touch, etc. Also important to note, oxytocin research is a VERY soft science. There is so much unknown and unproven.

“Of course there also are exceptions; like some men for example can climax by touching the feet of a woman, some women can climax through penetration or nipple stimulation.”

I am that exception. Both penetration (anytime I want) and nipple stimulation (sometimes) make me cum. There is little explanation why. Why I have always been multi orgasmic and have no issues with fluid levels is also odd. The only time in my life were these were gone was while on the pill. I suffered vaginal dryness, less orgasmic and sore. Four months (total in my entire lifetime) of those annoying side effects I was SO done with the pill. Done. If you have difficulties with orgasms consider the pill may be blocking it.

“Passion & The Pill. Long-term oral contraceptive use down-regulates oxytocin receptors (33), requiring more oxytocin. Logically, oxytocin levels in women on oral contraceptives are constantly higher. (34) Because more oxytocin is required to have the same effect, long-term contraceptive use levels your sex-drive and blocks incidental passionate sexual arousal.”

PRECISELY my above point and what I experienced with just four months on the pill.

“The perfect partner really, really loves to go down on you, and shares your deepest sexual fantasies. You don’t need a partner checking his watch while you are ‘working’ on your orgasm, trading your orgasm for his. You need a partner sexually aroused by the thought of you climaxing on that particular fantas(y)(ies), or in that particular situation(s). You don’t just need that in a healthy relationship, but also to maintain good physical health.”

Being pleasured by a man like this is a dream. I call it oxytocin trapped. For me the perfect partner fucks me more than once a day and more than 5 days a week. And is great with his tongue. I had that partner… for years…. totally trained him to be that way, too. 😛 As life proves we can’t have it all. Sex can’t make up for lifestyle differences and compatibility. Sadly. That’s another story.

“Therefore, consuming wheat- and dairy products and consuming prepared proteinous food (prepared meat, -fish, -soy, -beans) can decrease your sex life, by inhibiting libido.”

Going vegan increased my sexy drive but also soften me in many ways. More sensual.

“Anti-depressants also inhibit oxytocin release, orgasm and sexual desire through blocking serotonine decomposition. (39)”

A friend of mine who went on anti depressants stopping having multi orgasms and it lowered her sex drive. She changed meds quickly. Also consider gastrointestinal tract health because that is our main producer of serotonin.

“Marriage is Unnatural. In nature, males are designed to produce as much offspring, and to mate with as many different fertile females as possible. And we do not need to tell you this is still true for humans today ; men are dogs, and nobody can deny.

In nature, there are different methods to prevent overpopulation and abuse due to man’s sexual needs.

In monogamous living animals, females are about equally big and strong as males, to prevent males from dominating females, and little offspring is born. Some animals live solitary, and they only meet when the female is in heat. In other animals the females live together in groups, protecting each other against sex-aggressive individuals.”

Totally laughed. Oversimplified. Men are not dogs. They are a victim to their biology often. Generally the biology of men makes it more difficult for them to be monogamous. The best thing you can do for your man and your relationships is the counter intuitive thing…. allow him to look, allow him to flirt, allow him touch, allow him female friends and allow him space. It’s not about him not LOVING you when he is attracted to other females…. it is SIMPLE biology. It is not about YOU. You can never safe guard yourself completely from “threats.” His desires to hunt will NEVER go away. FACT. He can choose not to hunt. But that desire is always there. That has nothing to do with love. He chooses to be disciplined or not. If you can drop those insecurities, see biology and reality for what they are…. you’ll be happier with life and happier with men.

“Woman is designed to sexually submit to man” 

Now I am disagreeing. Designed how? Besides I love submitting but I also like dominating. Pretty sure I am not the only woman who likes this. Just saying.

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