Friends with Benefits: Introduction

Welcome to my friends with benefits series. This is a hot topic I discuss often with people and it is really frustrating to me to deal with the fantasies around it. Unhealthy unconscious relating patterns occur at higher rates within FWB that cause serious psyche damage that are difficult to de-bug and reprogram. It is… Continue reading Friends with Benefits: Introduction

To Mono or Not?

{ Written in Oct 2016. Revised a little and moved to my new blog. Total ramble on my struggles with relationships, what I witness that bothers me and my journey with figuring out what I wanted in a relationship. } The million dollar question in 21st-century American dating and relationships…. “To mono or not?” Granted… Continue reading To Mono or Not?

Conscious Uncoupling: Commit to Someone Who Makes a Good Ex {Plus Musings}

http://colinbeavan.com/choose-the-romantic-partner-who-will-make-the-best-ex/ I LOVE this blog post so much! “That made me think about how we might choose long-term partners in these times when we all live so long and there is a good chance we won’t be with our partners for our whole lives. I also thought about what a waste it is when, after… Continue reading Conscious Uncoupling: Commit to Someone Who Makes a Good Ex {Plus Musings}